On my way to the breakroom to fill up my water cup, I passed by a coworker waiting for the elevator: Me: Good morning! Him: Good morning! How are you doing today? Me: I'm doing good. How about you? Him: I'm doing fabulous, but not as fabulous as you. You've got the fabulous outfit. You're... Continue Reading →
Judgy Much?
There are times when I tell people, "You should do this," "You need this in your life," "I did this and my life totally changed." Am I judging? No. Hell, I'm total Hot Mess Express over here. Don't forget that. I don't say things because I think I'm better than a person or I've got... Continue Reading →
Me, Mine, And Ours
Last year right about this time, I was broken. I lost who I thought I was. I lost my muchness. I allowed others to dull my shine because I was looking for validation. I started 2022 just trying to keep my head above the water and it ended up being a year of survival. Seriously,... Continue Reading →
This Is All Wrong
You ever have days when you're just sick of your whole life? I'm having one of those days - all this week, if not all month. Last night I finally vocalized what's wrong with me. I don't even know how we got there, but while talking to Vince over lord knows what, I said it.... Continue Reading →
Life Hacks
You guys! With the economy being what it is, like most of people, I need all the help I can get! I've got to find ways to stretch a buck as much as possible. One sort of necessary indulgence is my makeup. I grew up wearing the common brands like Cover Girl, Maybelline, and Wet... Continue Reading →
The Chaos Chapter
You ever feel like when one piece of your life is a mess, everything else is a mess? Well, right now I feel like my life is in shambles. A few weeks ago, my bathroom started having crazy problems. Thankfully my Uncle has been working on it to fix it for us. Unfortunately, since he... Continue Reading →
Monday Y’all!
Don’t have much to say, but just happy to be here! I had a relaxing weekend. Baby girl comes home today after spending the month at her ‘Wita’s. Hope you have a great day. Let’s rock this week! 😎 Jeez, I need something for these pinches ojeras!
Freakin’ Conformist
On this day 5 years ago, I was fired. It wasn’t pretty and it sucked ass. I wasn't happy there, but I also wasn't giving up. It caught me off guard in the dirtiest way. I did all the things I was "supposed" to do - talked like them, dressed like them, agreed with them,... Continue Reading →
My People
Last year, a photography student asked me if my family would model for one of her assignments? At first I was like, "No! I hate the way I look!" Then I remembered all the things I tell my own clients like: You need to leave photos for your future generations. Your children will only look... Continue Reading →
I Sold My Soul
Last night, I sold my soul. Well, it was in a dream. But what does that say about me? If you know me, you know I have this HUGE belief that our dreams are connected to our lives in more ways than just our subconscious. Ever since I was little, I’ve had the most vivid... Continue Reading →